If you want to live sensibly and joyfully, remember that relationships are a human arrangement, not a celestial one.
Love advice and coaching
Welcome to love advice (also known as “liefdesadvies” in Dutch)!
Are you single and looking for love? Or are you in a long-term relationship and do you want to make it even better? I offer the advice you need!
We can work on regaining confidence after a break, we can build a strong base for a new relationship, or we will find a new balance for a long-term connection. Together we will achieve better communication skills and improved intimacy.
Options
Relationship advice
Are you looking for advice for your relationship? For example:
- Dealing with heartbreak
- Missing your ex-partner
- Dating advice
- The feeling of missing something in your relationship
- Adultery
- Identifying and releasing limiting beliefs
- Setting healthy boundaries
- Narcissistic personality in your partner
- (Impending) divorce
- Getting used to parenting/marriage
- Communication problems
- Polyamory
Wait no longer and click on the button below to book a session, so we can start working on improving your love life right away!
Coaching for singles
What makes my approach unique is my focus on singles coaching.
A love partner should add something beautiful to your life, and I understand better than anyone that finding the right partner starts with understanding yourself. That is why I offer individual coaching to stimulate your personal growth. Together we work on increasing your self-confidence, identifying your needs and desires, and releasing any blockades that are standing in the way of your love life.
A horoscope, tarot cards or a medium can tell you all you want to hear, in the end you will have to create your own life. That’s why we go through your “Love Resume” and change the things that are not going the way you would like.
I look forward to working with you on your path to your ideal love!
Women's coaching
As a woman you have unique qualities, dreams and potential. My coaching focuses on inspiring, guiding and empowering women like you, so that you can take control of your own life and realize your full potential.
I help you explore your inner beliefs, identify limiting patterns and let go of self-doubt. I provide a safe and supportive environment in which you can grow, thrive and develop yourself.
During our coaching sessions we will focus on different aspects of empowerment, including:
- Self awareness. Discover who you really are, what your values are and what you strive for in life. Get to know your strengths and develop a positive self-image.
- Self confidence. Build a solid sense of self-confidence and learn to deal with challenges and setbacks. Develop the courage to speak up and set your limits.
- Personal growth. Strive for growth and development. Learn to achieve your personal goals and overcome obstacles to achieve your dreams.
Being a strong woman is a personal journey and everyone’s path is unique. Be patient with yourself through all the challenges. Celebrate all successes, big and small!
My guidance is tailored to your individual needs and goals. I believe in the power of being a woman and I help you discover and unleash your full potential.
Relationship coaching for couples
Everyone has a different pace and every relationship is unique. But a lasting and successful relationship is one in which partners have a deep connection, show mutual respect and feel supported. Open and effective communication is essential. Partners actively listen to each other, share their thoughts and feelings honestly and respectfully, and resolve conflicts through constructive conversation. Trust, respect and acceptance form the basis of a strong relationship.
Building a lasting and successful relationship requires commitment, communication and continuous effort from both partners. It is a process of growth, adaptation and investment in each other.
Perhaps you are experiencing communication problems, a lack of intimacy or you might be struggling with conflict and want the relationship to be repaired.
My approach is based on empathy, understanding and positive communication. I work with you to strengthen mutual bonds, restore trust and develop effective communication skills. Whether you are in a new relationship or have been together for years and want to improve a long-term relationship, I will provide the personal guidance that is tailored to your situation.
I strive to support you in working towards a healthy relationship that can last for a lifetime. Together we will create a strong vision for your future.
About me
My name is Iris Sas-Schotsman. I am a relationship therapist and women’s coach with a background in psychology. After studying international law, I started working for KLM Royal Dutch Airlines.
Coaching quickly gained my interest and after my lifecoach training I started guiding people with a (government assigned) personal budget (in Dutch: “PGB”). Thererafter I became a relationship coach. I am familiar with Gottman and the methodology of Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT). I completed my training in London as a women empowerment coach.
At the moment I am developing myself further in the field of mind management. I am married and mother of three children and a lovely dog.
Pricing
A short introductory consultation is free and without obligation. We can speak on the phone, or do this online.
Session payment is required upfront. A session of 60 minutes is €75, for 90 minutes €99.
Health insurance
Relationship therapy and coaching are normally not covered by health insurance.
Location
Sessions can take place via video call, in my practice in Uithoorn, or any other convenient location.
Location
ICAN Coaching & Liefdesadvies
Iris Sas-Schotsman
Noorse Lijster 12
1423RZ Uithoorn
Nederland
Tel: +31 (0)6 16 326 271
Whatsapp: 
+31 (0)6 16 326 271
E-mail: iris [at] liefdesadvies.com, or use the contact form on this page.
Contact me
For more information or to make an appointment, please use the form below. A SMS (text) message, or a message via whatsapp or telegram is also possible.
I will contact you as soon as possible, preferably within one working day.
Training followed at Sonnevelt, accredited by the SNRO.
The “Stichting Nederlands Register voor Opleidingen” is an independent institute for quality assurance of vocational training.